absolutely OBSESSED with this song! i think the video is hystericalll!

Rules

tvpvsvnv:

I had so many rules for myself growing up. Here are just a few:

  • Don’t worry about other people’s business.
  • Don’t date guy friends.
  • Don’t fall for friends’ exes.
  • Don’t go out with or even act interested in someone your friend wants.
  • Don’t date exes friends.
  • Don’t lend money to people you don’t trust.
  • Don’t give people your trust until they’ve earned it.
  • Don’t lie.
  • Don’t steal.
  • Don’t cheat.
  • Don’t drink.
  • Don’t do drugs.
  • Don’t lay down when hanging out with guy friends.
  • Don’t date married men.
  • Don’t go on a second date unless the guy is interesting.
  • Don’t go on a third date unless you can see the particular guy in your future.
  • Don’t date someone who repulses you.
  • Don’t do blind dates.
  • Don’t let a guy stay the night in your bedroom.
  • Don’t date someone you can’t be attracted to.
  • Don’t date lazy bumholes.
  • Don’t let a guy know you’re head over heels for him if you are.

Needless to say, I’ve broken some of these. The ones I’ve certainly kept pertain to lying, stealing, and cheating.

 so so SO similar to my own set of “rules” give or take a few. (although I hate that concept, i like ‘morals’ much better). alas, life and love has gotten the best of me more times then I’d like to admit. and the only ‘rules’ i still strongly abide by deal with honesty and being faithful to friendships: friend’s crushs are strictly off limit, as are ex’s friends. hey, rules are made to be broken, right?

tumblr isn’t blocked at work!

this is an amazing discovery, as in my ever-so-busy life, i find no time to get to a computer; and tumbling from my phone is simply too annoying. hopefully this will get me to writing way more often.

wisefool:

I am time
You can’t recover me, conceal or smuggle me,
Retreat or run from me, crawl up or under me,
You can’t do much for me besides serve
Me well and have good dividends returned to you
Or attempt to kill me off and have me murder you
Many have wasted me but now they are facing me,
Treated me unfaithfully and now endure me painfully
Plaintively, I wait to see what history will shape to be,
Who’s hearts will never die inside the sake of me

-M.Def

“ Me, I’ve decided I’ve got no business speaking for black folks ”

Barack Obama (in Dreams From My Father)

if he only knewww then what is now

Mr. President Barack Obama being sworn in
(kind of late, i know.. whatev)

Mr. President Barack Obama being sworn in

(kind of late, i know.. whatev)

WHAT is up with people throwing the L word around? you can’t just be walking around telling all sorts of people you love ‘em.

i’ve arrived

so let’s do the damn tingg ;)